Wedding Ring Buyer Beware, Seven Steps to Take to Avoid Disaster


Crappy Diamonds in Shared Prongs Ring, Wedding ring buyer beware

Shared Prongs. Two diamonds are held in by shared prongs. Not good.

As beautiful as a delicate and thin ring is, it may end up breaking your heart. With more maintenance than a more sturdily built ring, the kinds of problems that crop up with a poorly made ring are many.

Wedding Ring Buyer Beware

There are a lot of knockoff jewelry pieces—lightweight replicas of famous and beautiful designs—sitting in jewelry store cases on planet Earth. Be careful, and make sure you don’t end up owning one of them!

Seven Steps to Take to Protect Yourself From Poorly Made Wedding Rings

Correct way to hold a jeweler's loupe

A Magnifying Loupe Reveals the Details

1. Examine all jewelry under magnification. Request a loupe from the jeweler. If they don’t have one, walk away.

Wedding ring buyer beware

Thin is Pretty, but it isn’t Sturdy

2. Check other rings of similar design. Compare and look for the one with more gold and a solidly made design.

Ring buyer beware, too thin ring drops diamonds

A Too Thin Band Looks Delicate and Feminine, But it Won’t Be Stable Enough For Hard Daily Wear

3. Feel the difference in weights. See if one ring feels heavier than another. Too thin a ring will drop diamonds.

The High Four Prong Center Diamond Setting Just Snapped Off

4. Question the style. For example, will the design you like, protect your center diamond?

5. Pay special attention to the way the diamonds are set. Some setting styles are more lasting.

Shared Prongs Show Off the Diamond, But Also Let Go Too Easily

6. For everyday wear try to chose settings that don’t share prongs.

Blue Diamond Engagement Ring with angular side elements with kite shaped diamonds

This Bride Chose a Low Set Blue Diamond with a Halo to Protect it. Note the Strong Prongs

7. Make sure the prongs are substantial and all the gemstones are set neatly.

It’s Amazing What You See Under Magnification

Ensure that the prongs hold onto the diamonds. Some prongs are slightly too short or too thin to do the best job of protecting your gemstones from daily wear.

Eight Things to Look For in That Ring With a Loupe

Ensure That Prongs Go Over the Diamond Firmly

  1. Look at the prongs holding the center gemstone. Make sure they go over the outer edge and hold the diamond.
  2. Are the four or six prongs even in length?
  3. Do the prongs cover the gemstone evenly? Avoid settings where one or more the the prongs are too close the the edge of the gemstone and not over the outer edge of the gemstone.
  4. Are the settings thick enough to protect the gemstone? Look at a number of engagement rings. Compare daily wear with occasional wear rings. Daily wear prongs should be more substantial.
  5. Are the side gemstone settings neatly and evenly done?
  6. Does each prong-set gemstone have four prongs? Or does it share prongs with its neighbor? Shared prongs are more problematic.
  7. Does the balance of the ring have enough gold/metal at the base?
  8. Do the diamonds or other gemstones in the ring look rich in color or bright white if diamonds?

If the Price of That Wedding Ring Seems Too Good to be True, it Probably is 

Bent engagement ring, ring buyer beware

Thin Looks Graceful, but may conceal a design too thin to hold up to daily wear

You’ve all heard it before, but: “You get what you pay for.” There is a very good reason why one ring costs $1,000.00 more than a similar one.

In the ring above, notice that the nice thickness you see in the bottom third of the ring looks less substantial when the diamond settings have been cut into it in the upper section.

The ring you choose needs to be especially thick in the area where diamond settings are drilled into it.

Notice the Thickness of this Ring. It’s Made to Last

The more expensive ring is probably heavier, it was cast using more gold, and more time was spent setting the gemstones.

A well made ring was made to last a longer time. The cheaper one? It was made for profit, not the happiness of the wearer.

You’ll Never Have a More Important Piece of Jewelry Than Your Wedding Ring

Take your time in selecting it. Consider having it custom made so you’ll know the thickness and quality will be built in. I know a good designer…..

Your Personal Jeweler,
Calla Gold

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About Calla Gold

Calla Gold is a Personal Jeweler and Author who takes pride in working with clients one-on-one to integrate their personal sense of style and taste into custom designed jewelry and repaired jewelry pieces.   Unlike typical Santa Barbara jewelry businesses, Calla Gold has no brick-and-mortar location. Calla Gold comes to you, bringing you the jewelry collection you want to see and collaborating with you to create unique custom jewelry. Calla also works with at-a-distance clients.

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12 years ago

I love your jewelry blog. Your Calla Gold Jewelry site is a cool site and I wanted to post a little note to tell you, good job! Best wishes!!

Amber Sims Hinterplattner
12 years ago

OMG this is such valuable information Calla! Thank you for sharing it. I have little side diamonds on my wedding ring and I will definitely have you check out their safety! You are truly an expert jeweler. Glad Santa Barbara has you!

Executive Coach
12 years ago

Inspector Calla to the rescue again! Been there, done that. Thanks for helping me and others protect jewelry investments and keepsakes.
Dr. Lynn K. Jones, Certified Personal and Executive Coach

8 years ago


I am upgrading my plain 14K yellow gold wedding set with a sparkly white gold set. The style I like is shared prong with lots of small diamonds 3/4 around shank, all around the center stone and the setting. The ring is available in 18K white gold or platinum, which would be best considering all the small diamonds…platinum? Thank you!

Oscar Valencia
Oscar Valencia
6 years ago

Nice and informative article. All the points are practical and appreciatable.

Amelia Brown
Amelia Brown
4 years ago

A great informative article.