The Mangagement Rings Story
Check out the cutting edge Mangagement rings news, through the eyes of Alan and Maura.
Abruptly, Alan turned to me, his Santa Barbara Jeweler and said, “You know…I feel a little discriminated against. Here we are designing my fiancé, Maura’s engagement ring, which she’ll get to wear for ten months before the wedding, while my poor finger goes bare the whole time. What’s with that?” Alan had a dry, deadpan sense of humor and I wasn’t sure if he was serious or not. I glanced at Maura.
“Honey,” she said gently, “if you want a ring, we can make you one, too. Right, Calla?”
“Of course,” I said cheerfully. “There’s actually a name for these kinds of rings.”
“There is?” Alan asked, a bit surprised.
“Yes. They’re called “mangagement rings.”(See the Huffington Post article.)
“Seriously? A combination of the words, ‘man’ and ‘engagement’?”
“That’s right,” I answered. Then in a conspiratorial voice added, “It’s a cutting edge concept. You’d be one of the first.”
“Go for it, Honey!” Maura exclaimed.
“You know…I think I will.”
What Exactly Are Mangagement Rings?
A mangagement ring is an engagement/wedding band worn during the period of engagement.
The ring can be worn in concert with a matching wedding ring once you get married or it can simply be polished up prior to the wedding ceremony.
Many women today opt for single wedding rings instead of going with an engagement ring/wedding ring set. Basically, guys do the same thing with the mangagement ring.
Back to Alan
“So I don’t have to get another ring? This ‘mangagement’ ring will be my wedding ring, too? And you’ll polish it up before the ceremony?” Alan asked.
“It’ll look shiny and brand new when I get done with it,” I said brightly.
“And you’ll polish my engagement ring at the same time?” Maura inquired.
“Absolutely,” I said.
Turning to her fiancé, Maura asked, “Are you feeling a little less discriminated against, Honey?”
“Well…can I have a diamond in my ring?”
Your Mangagement Rings Designer,
I’m a waiter at a nice sea food restaurant. I like my job and the tips. I’m saving up for my upcoming wedding. To make a short story long, the hostess is the sister of my manager. I’m up for a promotion to head waiter and I’m already doing the schedules, but don’t yet have the title. The hostess who my wife and I refer to as the lizard woman because she wore these scaly green shoes the day this happened asked me to help her with something in the coat closet. She grabbed me from behind, turned me around and kissed me. I was so shocked that it took a minute for me to disengage.
She knows I’m engaged and uses any excuse to get next to me and bump her hip against mine. Seriously I will get to my question soon. I’m worried that if I just shut her down verbally that she’ll complain to her brother my manager and I may lose my promotion or possibly my job.
I told my fiance who is so upset she wants me to quit, but we need the money for the wedding. And I like my job. So here’s my question. Can guys wear their wedding bands while engaged or is that too weird? I’m hoping it will deter this hostess.
– Ringless and Stalked
Well, that is a new one. For the record, you definitely may wear your ring while engaged. It’s called a mangagement ring and it is a thing.
The only thing is this hostess. If you’ve already told her you’re engaged and she hasn’t let up then I can’t guarantee that the wedding ring will put her off. Let’s hope!
Years ago when my husband was a waiter and there was a hostess who just went after the married fellas. This made me a bit uncomfortable, but I trust him so it became a joke. I’d greet him with a “Oh, you came home!” and he’d respond with a “Yes I managed to resist her for another day!”
Eventually, she moved on and we made up new jokes.
May you have a long and happy marriage.
Your Personal Jeweler,