Ear Lobe Droop, It’s Like an Epidemic!
The other day my phone rang and Danita said one of her earrings looked funny. I went to see her and yup, she had ear lobe droop. It comes up a lot!
Do some of your earrings end up pointing toward the pavement? If so, it’s time to read this post and fight back against this silent Jewelry Enjoyment Killer!
What Is Ear Lobe Droop?
This problem stems from too large and heavy an earring being worn on too thin or too bendable an ear lobe. Or an ordinary size and weight earring being worn on an ear hole that is ripped, enlarged or just bigger than normal. Your earring just points toward the pavement.
It sags, it doesn’t sing. It looks the opposite of pert.
What Causes the Dreaded Ear Lobe Droop?
The combination of the thickness of your ear lobe and the heaviness or three dimensional quality of an earring determine how an earring will present on your ear.
The way your lobe is shaped, its size and where it is pierced, also determine whether or not you will look good in different types of earring designs.
Everyone’s ear lobes are different, some are thick, some are thin, some are large and some are small.
Another cause of Ear Lobe Droop is tiny, thin, poorly designed earring backs.
“What Kind of Ear Lobes Do I Have?” Check it Out!
Look at your lobes from the front and side in a mirror and the position of your piercing to get to better know what you have to work with.
Testing for Ear Lobe Droop
Test yourself with an earring like that pictured or described here.
One of the most challenging styles of earring a person can wear is the circular button earring. If it’s half and inch in size and has a post in the middle.
Put it on with a normal sized gold backing. Most likely that earring will little by little tip forward until it’s pointing to the pavement.
This is not only a very unattractive look, but it is hard on your ear-pierced area.
The tricky thing about testing is that at first it looks great, but as the day wears on and you use the phone and other activities, it starts to droop or sag.
Handling the Dreaded Ear Lobe Droop
There are a number of ideas to try out on the earrings that you discover are drooping on you. In this post I’ll focus on specialty ear backings.
Using Larger Earring Backings On Post Backed Earrings
I love my Monster Backs. They solve a lot of problems with drooping earrings. Monster Backs are 10mm Wide or 6/16ths of an Inch. Big and Supportive. Sort of Like a Bra for Your Ear Lobes!
But there can be problems with them too. Fore-warned is fore-armed. Here’s my opinion pro and con on Monster Backs:
Pro’s of Monster Backs
- They flatten the back of your ear lobe, preventing it from bending and so support your earrings all day long in comfort and beauty.
- Your earring is held in place firmly, so the weight of it is not pulling on your ear lobe.
- Monster Backs support the weight of your earrings, so you can wear heavier more complex designs.
- They are made of gold, so they won’t give you an infection.
- They are made of thick heavy gold, therefore they don’t come off till you take them off.
- They are large and therefore easy to grasp.
- They just feel really great in your fingers.
- No one will lose their diamond studs with Monster Backs holding them in place.
- If someone sees them because of your short hair they look fine because they are gold!
Cons of Monster Backs
- They require you to align them correctly. If you try to put them on at an angle to your earring post they may refuse to go on.
- If you have very long posts, they can more easily bend your posts.
- They take a bit of pin-point strength to put them on. They are so sturdily made that they need a proper shove to get them on the post. Some of my elderly clients cannot muster the fingertip control for this task.
- Using these backs require more push to get them on which can stress your posts. You may occasionally break off a post when putting them on.
- You need to grasp the front of your earring in front of your earring to hold it while you pull your Monster Backs off. If you have a glued on pearl, you may pull your pearl off. So these shouldn’t be used if the front of your earring cannot be handled and grasped.
- They are gold and therefore expensive. (But worth it in my opinion!)
- If you have tiny ear lobes or super low post holes and are wearing tiny earrings, your Monster Back may show below your lobe. This is not a great look. You may not be able to use them on your tiny earrings. (Hmm, but your tiny earrings don’t droop so no problem!)
A Less Expensive Alternative Large Earring Backing; the Plastic Disc Back
I’m the Jeweler so I get to wear Monster Backs. But plastic disc backs work too. So here’s my full disclosure on them, Pro and Con;
Pro’s of Plastic Disc Backs
- Plastic disc backs use a wax filled barrel to grasp and hold your post. It grasps quite well and once it is on it stays on, except where mentioned in cons.
- They are inexpensive. So you can get a pair for each problematic pair of droopy earrings.
- They ably support your earrings pertly.
- They save your ear lobe from being pulled on and irritated.
- Use plastic disc backs or 14kt gold monster backs with an earring that wants to tip forward. The large flat area of the earring backing behind your earlobe supports your lobe, the way a buttress supports a castle wall. Image.
- They are large and easy to grasp.
Cons of Plastic Disc Backs
- The wax filled center dries out after a time and the hardened wax now isn’t grippy any more, risking the loss of your earrings. (It happened to me in a parking lot. Luckily I found the earring. Unluckily I stepped on it first. But it’s OK.)
- For those with sensitive ears, the plastic disc backs can causes irritation, so isn’t an option.
- When the disc backs are new the wax in the center can be so grippy that you can stress out your earlobe trying to get your earring off.
- You must grasp the front of your earring to get these off. If you have a glued on pearl or something similar you might accidentally yank it off.
- When the grippy wax is super grippy, you risk bending or breaking a post putting them on or taking them off.
- If you have tiny ear lobes or super low post holes and are wearing tiny earrings, your plastic disc back may show below your lobe. This is not a great look. You may not be able to use them on your tiny earrings. (Hmm, but your tiny earrings don’t droop so no problem!)
- Earring posts have a locking line near the end to keep your backings from falling off when they work their way back toward the end. Plastic disc backs don’t stop at that line, they just keep going.
Do Monster Backs Come in Screw Backs?
They do not come in screw back style. You don’t need screw backs though. Monster backs don’t come off until you grasp both the earring and the backing and pull them apart.
For those concerned about losing earrings I think you’ll love the support that the monster bank gives you and the security of their grippy ways. You won’t need screw backs and monster backs.
I wrote a blog in answer to a client’s question about screw backs and why I don’t like screw backs.
What if You Have a Ripped Ear Lobe?
One of my clients had one ear hole that was longer and she’d quit wearing earrings. Plastic surgery was in her future, but until then I wanted to get her back into her earrings.
Read about lobe wonders and how they get the job done.
There are Other Earring Back Options
I have shared just one possible solution to Ear Lobe Droop with you. Read about Silicone Sliders.
You Can Also Customize Your Earring Closures for a Tight Fit
Also read my blog post: Confessions From a Jewelry Designer: Do You Suffer From Droopy Dangly Earrings?
Don’t let your earrings point toward the pavement! Fight sagging earrings and wear your gorgeous earrings, because you need to Wear it Don’t Warehouse it!
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